Your child is an integral, inseparable part of your life. And to see them in pain hurts you to the core. If you suspect your child has a problem with marijuana use, now is the time to do something about it.
There is hope for marijuana abuse . And the first step to finding help begins with you.
Signs to Notice
Bloodshot Eyes: A telltale sign of marijuana use is a reddish tint to the user’s eyes.
Increased Appetite: A marijuana user often eats voraciously after smoking or ingesting marijuana.
Lethargy: Many people who use marijuana often find their energy sapped, and spend time on the couch watching TV or playing video games instead of pursuing a more active lifestyle.
Distorted Perception: A marijuana user’s visual perception is distorted when under the influence of marijuana. Their sense of time, hearing and memory may also suffer temporarily.
Smell: Marijuana has a peculiar odor that smells like cabbage or skunk spray.
- Behaviors: When a child is abusing, you may notice of slip in school grades, a lack of interest in activities previously enjoyed, a change of friendships, and increased absenteeism.
What to Say
Be Forceful, but Positive: You’re the parent, and what you say goes. But what you say matters just as much as how you say it. Use positive, hopeful, inspiring language when talking to your child.
Express Concern: Many people who use marijuana aren’t aware of the impact their drinking has on their family, friends or others. Show your concern for them and appeal to them emotionally.
Ask Open-Ended Questions: Don’t just preach—have an open-ended dialogue with them. Ask open-ended questions such as “what do you think?” to engage with them.
What Not to Say
Making Judgements: Addiction is a disease, and making sweeping judgements about your child is a hard thing to avoid. Don’t be judgemental. What would you like to hear if you were in their shoes?
Using Labels: Don’t assign labels when speaking to your child. Your child isn’t a drug addict, they’re a person struggling from drug issues. Use hopeful, embracing and accepting terms instead of confining, harmful ones.
Steps to Take
Before you have a conversation with your child, find a resource to send them to. It’s not fair to confront someone without having a next step. When the time is right, have a firm but loving conversation about your choice to have them seek help. Make sure you use encouraging and non-judgemental languagethroughout your conversation. And—above all—be a parent, not a preacher. They need your help, not your admonishment, and it’s your job to get them the help they need.
Finding the Right Resource
Everyone who is trying to defeat their issues with marijuana needs a resource to help. Marijuana abuse may not be something your child can conquer by themselves. When determining the right place to send your child, consider these four things:
- Is the behavioral services facility CARF accredited?
- Are they committed to enhancing your quality of life?
- Can they help your child meet their personal recovery goals?
- Can they create a custom recovery plan to help them on their recovery journey?
The journey to manage addiction may not be quick, but it’s an important mission. There is hope, and your child can find help at Prelude.